All About Comet

It has always been a challenge for me to communicate with others. Talking with people, especially someone new, is very challenging to me. So do not let my inability to be social deter you from chatting with me. But that aside, one of the larger issues I have is when asked “What are you into?”. You would think that would be an easy answer, but for me, my generic reply is along the lines of “bondage and torment”. That is actually not very detailed I realize, but that is what comes out when trying to socialize. So I decided to put together an ever growing list of things I am into and add some context to them. I feel this is SO much easier to hand to someone as it gives conversation starters.

If I sent you this page cause you asked what I am into, do not take it as me not being interested, but more so actually being very interested. This page is designed to give you as much detail of what all I am and am not into. Feel free to discuss or question anything you see on this page. More so, definitely feel free to question and talk about things that are not on here, as that would likely be something I could add for future conversations.

My Hobbies:

First, let me go over some interests of mine aside from kink:

  • Computers/Technology:
    • I have been building/working on computers and electrical devices since I was maybe 4 years old.
    • I attended college for a couple years majoring in the field of Computer Science / Information Technology. Sadly I did not finish with a degree due to financial hardships, and today do not see myself going back to finish as I see no benefit in it to further my career.
  • Coding / Programming:
    • Up through college, I hated the idea of programming. Technically still do.
    • The ironic part is my career I am in, I am a programmer for Building Automation Systems. Sad when you think about it, but funny at the same time.
    • I will not say I know any programming language, cause I technically do not. But I have been exposed and use the following regularly:
      • Visual Logic / DDC
      • C++
      • Lua
  • Automation / Security Systems:
    • I like putting together technology / computer programming to build automation systems. I do building automations professionally for work, but I also like putting together simple automation systems at home.
    • Also like using Arduino controllers.
    • Professionally, I install and program building automation systems mostly in commercial applications. Projects such as High Rise Offices or small office buildings, but not limited to those.
    • I also love putting together security systems, including surveillance systems.
  • Boating:
    • I grew up boating.
    • I do presently live on a houseboat.
    • I am not a fan of the hot outdoors, but that’s a benefit in houseboats, being out on the lake, and still having air conditioning. XD
  • Movies / TV Shows:
    • I am a huge Disney movie person.
    • Sci-Fi TV shows are what interests me most.
  • Gaming:
    • I am into Simulation Style Games.
    • Flight Sim
    • City Building (Sim City / Cities Skylines)
    • Minecraft – I host a modded Minecraft server building a city and using mods to bring tech / electricity into the building of the city.
  • Website Hosting / Building:
    • I do build / host websites as a side job/hobby.
    • Not a great graphics designer, but I do build functional database engines and information filled websites.
  • Photography / Filmography:
    • I have been trying to develop some skills in photography and Filmography.
    • Have a pretty good collection of equipment from DSLR cameras, streaming cameras, and drones.
    • Not an expert or professional by any means, but have impressed myself with how far I have come in editing.
    • Do have an interest in Streaming and Short Films, but lack the content to do so.
  • Weather:
    • I absolutely love hunting and tracking storms.
    • When anything severe is near, I get in full storm hunting mode and will sit here and track storms until it has past.

Now for the After Dark stuff…

Quick Overview

Here is a short list of everything, both limits and interests, below all this will be the same thing with more details:

Limits

  • Random Hookups
  • Face Pics
  • Picture Sharing
  • Scat
  • Blood
  • Permanent Marks
  • Kissing
  • Ass Eating/Licking
  • Food

Requirements

  • Sensory Deprivation
  • Bondage
  • Medical Knowledge
  • Tracking

Kinks and Turn-ons

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My Limits

While I am generally open to trying anything at least once before determining it’s not for me, I do unfortunately have a couple hard limits I would prefer to not be pushed into, and they are as follows:

  • Random Hookups:
    • I do not do random hookups.
    • I am open to chatting and discussing interests, but will not plan to meet up with someone I do not know.
    • This is very unsafe and stupid.
    • If meeting up is an interest to you, please take the time to get to know me, and let me get a chance to know you before hooking up.
    • Believe me when I say, I want to be tied up and tormented/used, but my safety and well-being is much more important than playing.
  • Face Pics:
    • I do not like pics being taken of my face at any time.
    • When in gear, I am all open to having pics taken so long as my face is not seen in the pic. A Pup hood, blindfold, or deprivation hood covering my face is acceptable.
    • I will not share a face pic of myself to someone I just met, have just started talking to, or someone I do not yet trust.
    • I will send a face pic when requested once a level of trust has been made and prior to meeting in person when requested.
    • This is both a confidence issue, as well as maintaining a level of professionalism outside of kink.
    • Please do not be that person to ask on first conversation and getting upset cause I wont share.
  • Picture Sharing:
    • Please do not share pictures of me without first getting my permission.
    • I am generally open to having my pics shared. However, depending on what we get into, I may not want certain pictures being shared.
    • I love having sessions photographed or filmed. All I ask is that I have a chance to see the images/videos before they are shared publicly.
  • Scat: Also known as Feces, shit, crap, but overall known as poop.
    • HARD LIMIT
    • I understand with Anal play there is a chance of this coming to being, that is not a big deal. Clean it up and move on.
  • Blood: The drawing of or exchanging of blood.
    • With the interest of certain kinks, it is possible blood may reveal itself. It is my intention to not ever intentionally draw blood. If certain kinks listed on this page could end up drawing blood, I expect a clear understanding between myself and all involved as to how to handle hygiene and cleanup.
  • Permanent Marks: This includes Bruises, cuts, burns, etc.
    • Any scene I am involved in, I want to come out of safe and unharmed. I do not want any marks that wont go away in a short period of time to show after leaving a scene.
    • This does not include marks like the marks of rope after a nice long bondage session, but I do not want those marks to linger and still be present a day or two down the road, even more so marks that are not easily covered by shorts and a t-shirt.
  • Kissing:
    • I have never been interested in kissing and would prefer it not being part of a session I am in.
    • This is more so geared towards the face.
    • When bound, if you are interested, my entire body is open to being kissed, however, please do not kiss me on the face.
  • Ass Eating / Licking:
    • Please do not put my face in an ass.
    • I have no interest in this.
    • However, my ass is completely open to whatever interests you.
  • Food:
    • I am a very picky eater. Like severely picky.
    • Please do not make me eat or drink anything without prior discussion.
    • Water obviously is fine, as it may be required.

My Requirements:

In order for me to enjoy a session, I do have a few requirements. Feel free to question and discuss these requirements with me, as I am not completely strict on these, but suggest them in order to have the most fun.

  • Sensory Deprivation:
    • Blindfold / Deprivation Hood
    • Something to cover my face in general. Seeing what is going on while it is happening, or seeing who is tormenting/playing with me, seeing anyone watching me, etc. tends to stir up anxiety and makes me uncomfortable. Being blindfolded I have found takes that discomfort away and allows me to enjoy a scene.
  • Bondage:
    • I love to be restrained. If I am not being forced to do something, its not that fun to me.
    • If you want to have fun with me, and me have fun at the same time, please bind me up and force me to do things or restrain me so I can not stop you from having your way with me.
  • Medical Knowledge:
    • An understanding of first aid and life saving skills/actions.
    • Accidents can happen. Basic first aid is simple and not too much to ask for.
    • Depending on what we get into, an understanding of what to do if something happens is expected.
    • I do have pretty bad anxiety. Nothing really on your end to deal with it, just an understanding that I could have an anxiety/panic attack. The only thing you would need to do is pause/end a session so I can calm down and recover. This is rare that this happens. Most of the time I am having way too much fun that even having an anxiety attack isn’t a problem to me. Just see me shaking or breathing weird, but am usually completely fine.
    • My well being is TOP priority to me. If there is something wrong, I will communicate with you. If its nothing major or life threatening, I may not communicate it as I am having fun despite it.
  • Tracking:
    • I have a very loving partner.
    • He likes to know where I am, and also like to check on my well being, more so in longer sessions.
    • Anywhere I go, he must know where and a rough estimate on timing.
    • I generally take care of all that information before hand, so action on your part is not usually involved. Just know he will know where I am.
    • If he decides to call me, I will either need it answered, or for a session to be paused so I can answer/call back.
    • This is unlikely to happen unless there is an emergency, as he knows where I am going and a rough time frame.

My Kinks and Turn-ons

Now to the fun stuff. Note that the kinks listed below are not necessarily the only things I am into. I am an experimentalist in that I am willing to try almost anything at least once to determine if I am into it or can take it. However, I do find it considerate for anyone with an interest that is not listed here, or maybe a detail missing on what is listed here, to ask and talk about it. It is possible I have an interest in something I didn’t even know about, and the only way for me to inform you if an interest exists is to talk to me. Plus, I need to update this page if something new interests me.

Something also to note, if there is something in this list you do not like, do not want to get into, or have anything to do with, that is totally fine! I don’t push anything onto anyone if they are not interested. If something in this list is something you don’t want to see or have anything to do with, just let me know before a session and I will keep it completely out! No need to ruin chances of meeting up for fun or being friends just cause I like something you don’t! đŸ˜‰

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JUST BECAUSE IT’S NOT LISTED DOES NOT MEAN I AM NOT WILLING TO TRY!

This statement is EXTREMELY true to me. I can only write down what I can think about. Being an experimentalist, I am willing to try most things unless they are already listed as a Hard Limit.

Now I did say MOST things. This does not mean I will try anything. Just ask me. It’s easier to ask me than to find out through a ruined session. I do not judge! I want you to ask me of things you may be interested in that I have not ever mentioned or shown an interest in. If I am not interested in something, I will simply say so. A disinterest in something wont ruin your chances of getting to play or be friends with me.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!!!!! Let me know if I can elaborate on anything here. Even if it is not listed here, I want to list it! So please ask me if anything sparks a question or if you are into something that is not listed here. I will kindly respond and add to this page.